~~My Wedding Plan~~

..(^-^)...-in happy mode-
When should i get married?..oppsss..not even engange!..ok..rephrase: When should i get engage?
When will be the right time for me?
I kept telling my self that I have to wait until my sister getting married first then will be me..but..waiting for her is such a waste..she is single and available..so i decided to narrowing my waiting time..i will wait until I finished my medical school..if she does not getting married until then I will married him..
is that clear?..clear enough..
..but..
few weeks ago, one lecturer told us that you should not refrain you self from getting married with the reason of your study..because when your mind and thought tells you that you can do it..yet you have to tell your mind that you can do it..thus..nothing is impossible..
..it is true though..
what should i do?
so i come out with this plan..
my problem is..my family does not know him..or even does not know that i'm with him..why?..as you may guess..i am still studying..yet my sister is still single with same profession i'll be later..so..maybe..i repeat..MAYBE..they think that it is impossible for medical student to fall in love..hahhaha..such a very good hypothesis..yet it is wrong..totally wrong..there are few of us..stucked to each other..including me..(^-^)

thus i have plan it carefully here..there are few step i have to go through before my wedding day..

1. Meet his family
of course i have to do that..i dont know why..i think i have to get to know them before hand..i means before engagement or what so ever related to it..i really mean it..for me..meeting his parents means we are in an established relationship even though i think we are in that position now..or in other word our relationship has been approved by his parents..my parent?..dont asked..they will agree with me for sure only if they are here..

2. Bring him to meet my BIG BRO
since both my parent are not here anymore so the responsible lies to my BIG BRO laa..as my wali..and as a chief of my family..for me when i bring him home that is mean we will getting engage soon..so this family meeting will be the 'merisik' part..i dont know what is merisik is going about..but in my thought i guess it is like a small discussion regarding our relationship. of course my brother have to know about it..set a date fore engagement..supposedly hantaran kawen should be discuss during the engagement day..but i preferred it to be discuss during this meeting..so he must ask my brother how much will be my hantaran kawen and mas kawen..hehehhe..not to forget my wedding date!
but i doubt whether i have no ask my sister to meet him as well. still thinking about that. i mean my elder sister, not the single one. she is important for me. she is the one who taking care of me. so it is such a appreciation for her to meet him with my brother at the same time. but i will ask her first..

3. Engagement day
no explanation needed i guess..but must be as soon as possible!..hehhe..around one month time after he meet my brother or even earlier but not later than that..dont know why i want it so soon..so this gonna be around mei 2010 or early june 2010.hopefully..ameen..

4. Wedding day
I rather choose my wedding day here but there is a possibility of my nikah day and delayed walimatul urus..so this thing should be discuss during our engagement day or even earlier..i should discuss with him before hand..

next will be my time line for my wedding plan..

1. Meeting his parent -
this can be at any time..no sweat..:P

2. Meeting my BIG BRO -
he is insist to meet my brother since..mmm quite long time..since 1 year ago if i not mistaken..the right time will be whenever i have successfully enter 5th year..which means few months ahead..why?..because i am failed one of the posting in my 4th year..hopefully only one pray not more than that..so there is doubt in my heart is there any chance for me to pass?..i will try my best thus we will be in 5th year together.why in 5th year?..i pretty sure that this is my final year..next will be our housemanship if only we are pass..pray for that as well..
i guess we will entering our 5th year around early april 2010. doing our ssm posting first. so maybe this will an ample time for us to meet up with both parents.

3. Engagement day -
this is depends on both family..and depends on our time as well..hopefully as soon as possible..(-0-)..hehehe..
around one month time after he meet my brother or even earlier but not later than that..dont know why i want it so soon..so this gonna be around mei 2010 or early june 2010.hopefully..ameen..

4. Wedding day -
is either before or after we are finishing our professional exam. why? it is depends..i rather hope we are able to get married before applying for our housemanship..should ask my sister regarding this!..if the time line of professional exam and applying date is so soon that means i rather getting married before the exam..but if the timeline is not so soon for us to get married first so choose after.