early of this month the first couple in our batch getting married (seems very happy lovey dovey couple)...then, my friends and me discussing about getting married at younger age (i am turn to 23 this year--->is that consider young?)...me my self has my own opinion. i far as i concern..getting married as earlier as possible is better because we are future doctors..we dont know what futures are waiting us..a part from that getting married earlier is better to post into same place..which is the most fear part i am concern with..we will going to housemanship for 2 years. can u imagine life suck with ward rounds, patients and oncalls--->i dont know how to maintain a relationship if we are in different places. not just different..what if sorang at perlis and another one at johor or maybe sabah or sarawak????..fear of he taken by some other hot houseman or maybe nurses or even a patient (there are still a possibility)--->so for me getting married earlier is better.
but 2 of my friends have different view of looking at it. one of them said, getting married during study is not good. as a student, we dont have payslip. how can the husband giving a nafkah to his wife. besides, we are staying in colleague..obsviously, husband and wife cant stay together. these 2 problems might not seems to be important. as u are so excited to get married everything seems so flowery and no problem waiting ahead. but, these 2 problem might be a major problem waiting as both of it is important to maintain a relationship.
another friend of mine mention, as a student our life is not stable in financial or even in sleep-wake cycle (^_^)...quite true..:P
besides these 2 friends of mine others are so excited of knowing they are getting married. one of us said, reason of her not getting married yet because of family problem ( the guy's fmaily doesnt really approve her besides, her sis is not getting married yet). another 2 is single mingle.
so, that is about our conversation about one of our colleague marriage--->what ever it is i wish the happy ever after (i am so excited of getting married as well!!!!!).
then, today i drag him to mcd at 2am (LAPAAAAAAA)..i dont know how but suddenly we are talking about our future. i dont know what to say. he is so serious (tak tau sbb ngantuk atau mmg serious) talking about marriage. he said, we should move on. but i dont know what to say. suddenly i felt all my life will be sank and i cant sleep at 6am and wake at 3pm anymore. i cant do anything i used to to do it by self. i was like stunted and speechless. even though deep in my heart i really want to get married but seems like i love what i am in recently.however, whenever i am thinking about our future then i shivering..i want to get married. furthermore, i dont know what to tell to my brother..moreover, my grandma choose my sis to get married first!!!!..omigod..i dont know what to say..finally i answer him by saying..i will ask my sister opinion first.. seriously i dont know what to say and how to handle this kind of thing. i dont have any experience about it....btu still deep inside me i glad he is so serious. we have been in marriage discussion few times before this but not as serious as this one--->which succesfully make me shiver until now...until now i still dont know and dont have any idea how to move on..mmmmm..
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